I feel the neeed to keep a journal of my journey with Gordon as the prostate cancer becomes more advanced and he approaches death.
I am not desolate about it, I am in reality just deflated I think.
We had to call out the GP on Friday as he is beginning to show signs of pain. However he still managed a short walk on Friday and yesterday, 13 minutes, and 17 minutes.
He has always balked at taking pain killers, but now he is asking for them.
It is only paracetamol at the moment, but I feel there has been a huge shift in his mood since yesterday. He is now " looking forward" to dying. When I saythat I do not mean with excitement, but just showing me he knows it is coming, and he is accepting it. He will not fight this, and in a way I donot want him to.
We have just had a lovely chat with him appreciating all I do for him, but then he immediately says can he have permission to use the phone as he wants to speak to his wife !!!!
I do not think he is actually in much pain but he is now worried about it coming. I am going to keep a strict record of every time I give them to him as he will forget and will probably ask for them throughout the day.
Just need you all to think about us from time to time. and to encourage me to stay strong.
Jeannette
I am not desolate about it, I am in reality just deflated I think.
We had to call out the GP on Friday as he is beginning to show signs of pain. However he still managed a short walk on Friday and yesterday, 13 minutes, and 17 minutes.
He has always balked at taking pain killers, but now he is asking for them.
It is only paracetamol at the moment, but I feel there has been a huge shift in his mood since yesterday. He is now " looking forward" to dying. When I saythat I do not mean with excitement, but just showing me he knows it is coming, and he is accepting it. He will not fight this, and in a way I donot want him to.
We have just had a lovely chat with him appreciating all I do for him, but then he immediately says can he have permission to use the phone as he wants to speak to his wife !!!!
I do not think he is actually in much pain but he is now worried about it coming. I am going to keep a strict record of every time I give them to him as he will forget and will probably ask for them throughout the day.
Just need you all to think about us from time to time. and to encourage me to stay strong.
Jeannette