2 weeks ago my grandfather died, he was poorly but it was a shock.
My nan forgets and asks about him daily - when we tell her she gets terribly upset, it's awful, if we say "we don't know" where he's got to she seems to accept it. The funeral is Wednesday and everyone we have spoken to has said she should be there despite my uncle (her son) saying he doesn't want her there.
We need to move her into a care home as she can't live alone - doesn't cook, clean, bath etc - my mum has stayed there since my grandfather passed away but it's not definite she has her own home. Although she can be there daytimes.
How do we choose a carehome? My nan has her own home and some savings which is for her care but what happens when the money runs out?
Care homes are so expensive.
Social services are of no help at all.
We are worried about what happens to my nan if there is no more money left.
We also have a family argument where my uncle wants to find somewhere 'cheap' 200 miles away but that would mean we can't visit her. He won't communicate and now we are stuck with the dilemma of trying to find a home but him not agreeing.
My nan forgets and asks about him daily - when we tell her she gets terribly upset, it's awful, if we say "we don't know" where he's got to she seems to accept it. The funeral is Wednesday and everyone we have spoken to has said she should be there despite my uncle (her son) saying he doesn't want her there.
We need to move her into a care home as she can't live alone - doesn't cook, clean, bath etc - my mum has stayed there since my grandfather passed away but it's not definite she has her own home. Although she can be there daytimes.
How do we choose a carehome? My nan has her own home and some savings which is for her care but what happens when the money runs out?
Care homes are so expensive.
Social services are of no help at all.
We are worried about what happens to my nan if there is no more money left.
We also have a family argument where my uncle wants to find somewhere 'cheap' 200 miles away but that would mean we can't visit her. He won't communicate and now we are stuck with the dilemma of trying to find a home but him not agreeing.