My gran is 91 and has alzheimers and is in a fantastic nursing home - she lives about 2 hours from me and I visit when I can - the problem is she hasnt got a clue who I am - which I cope with now without crying but she tells my sister that my sister is in a black place and is evil - she is barely talking now and I really am not sure whether keep visiting is a good idea - what does everybody think?
She is well looked after but you can no longer hold a conversation with her and she jumps if you try to hold her hand - I find it heart breaking that my lovely gran doesnt know who we are or that she has 5 great grandchildren or that her husband has died - does anybody know the best way to cope??
She is well looked after but you can no longer hold a conversation with her and she jumps if you try to hold her hand - I find it heart breaking that my lovely gran doesnt know who we are or that she has 5 great grandchildren or that her husband has died - does anybody know the best way to cope??