I am sure I should have had a good read through this website but I am so desperate I don't knoŵ what to do! My mum is 81 and my dad is 84 and they live I. South Wales, I however live in suffolk. My dad, I am sure has Alzheimer's or dementia, his short term memory is shockingly bad and his hands tremble all the time. Following a recent hospital admittance he was told to visit his Dr, subsequently he has been given an appointment for a brain scan this Saturday and awaiting an appointment for the memory clinic. That's good I hear you say..... Nope, he is refusing to go, blaming my mum and telling her it's her fault, she is so down and at her whits end that she is just accepting what he says as she has no fight left in her to argue. Trouble is, she will have no support other than when I or one of my children visit. I was hoping that someone may be able to help me but if he is adamant that he will not have the tests then seems little that can be done.
Thanks for reading/listening, it has sort of helped getting this off my chest
Thanks for reading/listening, it has sort of helped getting this off my chest