On the 16th of June at 3 in the morning my most precious and darling husband passed away. I lay beside him with my arms around his, holding his hand and my head on his chest and waited as his dear heart stopped beating.I felt quiet and peacful as I knew his struggle was over. After my children said their last goodbye I closed the door behind them, we had our last moments , I washed him and shaved him and dressed him in the clothes he had always worn when we went,then I just smiled at him and said,We did it darling, together we did it . He is free at last, he left our house as the man he has always been strong and proud.The whole house felt so warm and happy as if he was radiating a huge warm and loving smile that just filled us with peace and happiness and the feeling that everything was right ,he was where he should be ,free and whole and after all these long sad years, back with us again .Each time saddness over takes us we just think of his beautiful smile and the way we felt that day. The day before he died I took a small lock of his hair to wear in a locket around my neck, to feel him close to me , but I do not feel alone .He is with me and I will always love himand feel the love he felt so much for me. He will always be my darling husband as death hasn't parted us ,we are just apart for a while......................Thanks to all Bye Daizee
My darling husband has gone to rest,he is whole again
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Oh Daizee,
I am so sorry that your husband has died, but it sounds so beautiful. I am so pleased that his death was that of the strong proud man that you loved. Thank you for sharing with us. I am sure that I am not alone in saying that you are an inspiration. Thank you.
Much love,
Helen
I am so sorry that your husband has died, but it sounds so beautiful. I am so pleased that his death was that of the strong proud man that you loved. Thank you for sharing with us. I am sure that I am not alone in saying that you are an inspiration. Thank you.
Much love,
Helen
Daizee.
What a lovely post my key board was awash with tears. So pleased your felt at peace when he passed away.
Love Cynron x x
What a lovely post my key board was awash with tears. So pleased your felt at peace when he passed away.
Love Cynron x x
Dear Daizee,
I only started reading about your husband`s struggle today, and replied to one of your earlier threads. I am devastated by your sad news and the tears are flowing for your husband and mine. I am so so sorry. He was a very lucky man to have someone as caring as you. I know you have many friends here and I am sure we don`t want this to be a final goodbye from you. Come back for support whenever you feel low. Let all the support carry you through the sad bad times.
A big hug from chrisply. xxxx
I only started reading about your husband`s struggle today, and replied to one of your earlier threads. I am devastated by your sad news and the tears are flowing for your husband and mine. I am so so sorry. He was a very lucky man to have someone as caring as you. I know you have many friends here and I am sure we don`t want this to be a final goodbye from you. Come back for support whenever you feel low. Let all the support carry you through the sad bad times.
A big hug from chrisply. xxxx
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God Bless and keep you Daizee. Thank you for sharing your precious story with us and being such an inspiration.
Thinking of you.
Debbie
Thinking of you.
Debbie
Daizee
your post made me feel very sad.
I hope I can be as brave as you when the time comes
Norman
your post made me feel very sad.
I hope I can be as brave as you when the time comes
Norman
Thank you for your moving message, Daisy, you are a very special person and I send you my condolences and best wishes - may you and your family continue to find consolation in your wonderful memories of your husband's love.
Take care and 'god bless'.
Take care and 'god bless'.
Dear daizee, thank you for sharing your precious last minutes with us.
You are inspirational. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
You are inspirational. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sorry
Dear Daizee
I am sorry to hear you have lost your husband, i know how you are feeling at the moment as it is one week tonight since i lost mine.
I am sure that you will have some emotional times ahead but your lovely memories will carry you through.
Stay strong.
Alex
Dear Daizee
I am sorry to hear you have lost your husband, i know how you are feeling at the moment as it is one week tonight since i lost mine.
I am sure that you will have some emotional times ahead but your lovely memories will carry you through.
Stay strong.
Alex
Love
Dear Daizee, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today. You expressed the true meaning of love in the way you expressed your feelings and emotions at this sacred time that you will carry with you for the rest of your life. - McK
Dear Daizee, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today. You expressed the true meaning of love in the way you expressed your feelings and emotions at this sacred time that you will carry with you for the rest of your life. - McK
What to say, Daizee? Even at this time you are an inspiration and so brave and selfless to post such a message.....
Tears - yes lots of them - just from behind this PC - and with every one a prayer for you and yours.
With love, Karen (TF)
Tears - yes lots of them - just from behind this PC - and with every one a prayer for you and yours.
With love, Karen (TF)
Dear Daizee
I was so saddened to hear of your loss but feel truly inspired by what you have written. Your children are truly lucky to have such parents.
Libs
I was so saddened to hear of your loss but feel truly inspired by what you have written. Your children are truly lucky to have such parents.
Libs
I hope peace and many happy memories of your husband will be with you all always, and that with them you remember the joy of having loved and been loved by a great man.
Thank you so much for sharing this. My prayers are with you all.
Cat.
Thank you so much for sharing this. My prayers are with you all.
Cat.
