my dad had a stroke back in sept it has set off early onset dementia although not medically giagnosed he will be 97 this month hr is in special sheltered access carers on site do his meals he ha a microwave as not safe tp use a cooker can't even use the microwave since the stroke he has no interest in anything goes to bed at 7pm won't go out won't even go gown to the day centre down stairs I've bought crossword books jigsaws to no avail i lost my husband and have no children help me and don't drive i do his shopping cleaning washing and i am shattered I'm on a waiting list with age uk for help with shopping its so hard any health is suffering