My sister stayed the other week at mine to care for our 46 yr brother with dementia. Whilst I had a 2 day break. She said she thinks he's urinating in the kitchen sink.. (I have no sense of smell) but I had notice the window ledge was wet.. I mistakenly thought it was the plant I had on there..
Since I came home I have bleached the area every morning and some days the wetness on the window ledge appeared again..
I've been saying to my brother (who sleeps downstairs... ) when we go bed dont worry about going bathroom as we won't wake up..
Today I put up a cheap amazon camera..and within 30 minutes of me going to bed and saying 'don't worry about going to the bathroom whilst we're asleep', their is a notification.. he first is in the fridge drinking the milk from the carton (which i can live with) but then he is literally weeing in the sink.. but even worse.. he's wiped his bits on the pot towel.. ?? im mortified, feel sick . But what do i do.. he has dementia.. is it that or not..we've had to lock the doors as he was wandering outside and once went missing for the whole day.. my husband said he thinks he previously urinated at the back door..
Is this dementia or is he just being disgusting.. what do I do? I dont want to be angry as there's no point tbh as he will be oblivious that it was him.. but its our home? ?
Since I came home I have bleached the area every morning and some days the wetness on the window ledge appeared again..
I've been saying to my brother (who sleeps downstairs... ) when we go bed dont worry about going bathroom as we won't wake up..
Today I put up a cheap amazon camera..and within 30 minutes of me going to bed and saying 'don't worry about going to the bathroom whilst we're asleep', their is a notification.. he first is in the fridge drinking the milk from the carton (which i can live with) but then he is literally weeing in the sink.. but even worse.. he's wiped his bits on the pot towel.. ?? im mortified, feel sick . But what do i do.. he has dementia.. is it that or not..we've had to lock the doors as he was wandering outside and once went missing for the whole day.. my husband said he thinks he previously urinated at the back door..
Is this dementia or is he just being disgusting.. what do I do? I dont want to be angry as there's no point tbh as he will be oblivious that it was him.. but its our home? ?