Update I have had emails from my brothers
the youngest one says I haven't done much clearing although he hasn't looked any drawers. The other one says that it's unfair for my youngest brother to do the clearing and that I am not proactive in looking for properties. He thinks we should put it on the market straight away.
MaNaAk
Are you being proactive in looking for somewhere else?
Maybe you could have a list of things that you have done?
Mums clothes gone/wardrobe empty- tick
Ditto dads- Tick
Sideboard/cupboards sort and parked any unwanted china ready to go - Tick
Sorted and shredded any redundant paperwork- tick
First sort through the kitchen? Tick
Do you have garage/shed? Have you sorted the usefiul stuff, rest ready to go?
Any unwanted furniture - ready to be collected? wardrobes/sideboards etc? tick
Mum/Dads beds? Tick
Get together a list of the things you have done, then ignore them