My beloved mother is at peace

Discussion in 'ARCHIVE FORUM: Support discussions' started by oonaghw, Dec 18, 2005.

  1. oonaghw

    oonaghw Registered User

    Dec 4, 2005
    18
    isle of man
    Hi all

    On Wednesday last my beloved mother finally got some peace she passed away quietly at 1.10pm. In one sense it was a great relief and in another it leaves such a hole in our lives. The centre of our world has gone and now we need time to refocus.

    I want to say that without this forum I may have gone mad - it is and has been great to realise that my family was not alone - many many others are going through the same and worse every day. I felt love and reassurance.

    For all of you out there who are hurting I send you my thoughts and prayers - I hope you can be strong and look after yourselves remember you cant be any good to anyone unless you do.

    Love to all

    Oonagh
     
  2. Sheila

    Sheila Registered User

    Oct 23, 2003
    2,259
    West Sussex
    Dear Oonagh, so sorry to hear of the sad loss of your dear Mum. The death of a loved one is a hard thing to come to terms with, her suffering is over, but you still feel the loss and feel odd as you didn't want her to suffer either. Round and round you go and it hurts I know. My thoughts are with you at this sad time, big hug, love She. XX
     
  3. Norman

    Norman Registered User

    Oct 9, 2003
    4,348
    Birmingham Hades
    Dear oonaghw
    All our thoughts are with you at this sad time.
    It will take time to re adjust your lives,but you will get there.
    Best Wishes
    Norman
     
  4. Finnian

    Finnian Registered User

    Sep 26, 2005
    60
    U.K.
    Oonagh

    Just wanted to send you and your family a hug. Take comfort from the fact you did as much as possible to support your Mum. I hope that the pain you feel at the moment eases and is replaced by happier thoughts of the life you shared.

    You are in my thoughts.
    Finnian
     
  5. connie

    connie Registered User

    Mar 7, 2004
    9,519
    Frinton-on-Sea
    Dear Oonagh, my sincere condolences, such a sad time for you are the family.
    Your dear mum is at peace now, take time to mourn and heal. Love Connie
     
  6. Kathleen

    Kathleen Registered User

    Mar 12, 2005
    639
    West Sussex
    Oonagh and family

    My thoughts are with you too. Happy memories of your Mum will overcome the bad times you have all been through. Look after each other.

    Kathleen
     
  7. Mjaqmac

    Mjaqmac Registered User

    Mar 13, 2004
    939
    Oonagh, thinking of you at this sad time.
     
  8. Lynne

    Lynne Registered User

    Jun 3, 2005
    3,433
    Suffolk,England
    #8 Lynne, Dec 19, 2005
    Last edited: Dec 19, 2005
    Oonagh, I feel for your pain and sorrow. You're so right, losing a parent leaves a huge gap in ones life, but she is beyond pain & confusion now.

    Get the family albums out, and start remembering the wonderful person she was before AD took her away from you. That's the woman to remember and hang on to, not the more recent memories of distress and separation from reality.
     
  9. twink

    twink Registered User

    Oct 28, 2005
    265
    Cambridgeshire UK
    oonagh

    Oonagh, my thoughts are with you at this time too. My Dad died last Boxing Day but not from AD and I still can't look at photos which were taken during his illness when he looked old, ill and very frail but I can very happily look at the ones where he was well and happy so do the same, just look at the ones of your Mum when she was well and happy.

    Love Twink/Sue
     
  10. rummy

    rummy Registered User

    Jul 15, 2005
    700
    Oklahoma,USA
    Oonagh,
    I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
    Debbie
     
  11. noodle31

    noodle31 Registered User

    May 1, 2005
    81
    kent
    My thoughts are with you...

    Dad passed 8th dec...funeral was today...

    I think I have some idea of how you are feeling

    {{{hugs}}}

    love Jane x
     
  12. Brucie

    Brucie Registered User

    Jan 31, 2004
    12,413
    near London
    My thoughts are with you, too.

    Your mother is at peace now.
     
  13. Claire D

    Claire D Registered User

    Nov 30, 2005
    11
    My thoughts are with you

    Oonagh

    I have only just joined the website and already it has give me a huge source of comfort with my own mother's suffering. I am sorry to hear of your mother's passing but in that passing all the pain and confusion has gone - as you say she is now truly at peace.

    There is a lovely passage from a book called The Prophet by Kahill Gibran from which I hope you don't mind me sharing a passage with you.

    Then the Almitra spoke, saying, We would ask now of Death; and he said.............

    Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing
    And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb
    And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance

    I hope this provides you some comfort.
     
  14. Linda Mc

    Linda Mc Registered User

    Jul 3, 2005
    1,881
    Nr Mold
    I am so sorry to read of your loss and send my love and sympathy.

    Linda x
     
  15. Jude

    Jude Registered User

    Dear Oonagh,

    I join with all our other TP friends in sending you and your family condolences and sympathy.

    Thinking of you all.

    Jude
     
  16. oonaghw

    oonaghw Registered User

    Dec 4, 2005
    18
    isle of man
    Love & Hugs

    Thanks everyone for your kind thoughts they are really appreciated

    Love Oonagh
     

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