Hi I'm looking for any advice on how to convince my Mum to accept help from the carer who comes in the morning. She refuses to go out for walks or to cafes and the most stressful thing for us is seeing her in the same clothes every day, they are dirty and she does not shower or wash her hair, and when you question her about it she lies and says she just had a shower!! I try so hard to get her to change clothes or wash but she just says I will do it later It's getting so frustrating Today I pretended she had spilt something on her top and got new top out drawer to change but she just refused saying would do it later!! How do I get her to accept help from myself or carers!!