Hi everyone
I wrote last week very worried about my Mum who was very sleepy and deteriorating rapidly. I wasn't sure if this was caused by sudden progression of her disease. I had been trying to check out her meds previously as she seemed sedated all the time - however her sleeping suddenly became increased, she wasn't eating and could not formulate any words etc.
I was especially concerned about her not eating and the care home told me the food was remaining in her mouth as she wasn't swallowing; I noticed there were a lot of food remnants round her mouth and moisture/food dribble under her chin which was causing her neck to be red and sore and I had asked a couple of times about her welfare and meds. One of the nurses said they had requested a blood test the previous Friday and on Tuesday when I asked again they said they were waiting for a form to complete. One of the carers told me 'it was the disease progressing'.
I had replies from some lovely people on here last week but want to let you know that on Thursday night the care finally home got the blood tests back which showed Mum's sodium levels as very high and she was admitted to hospital with severe dehydration and an infection. I sat with her for 5 hours in A&E before going to an assessment ward. This has caused me a lot of distress not to mention her, bless her. She is now in a ward and remaining in hospital at the moment.
When she was first admitted to the assessment ward after A&E they could not find her papers which the care home said they sent; they also had no medications for her as these were not sent. I do feel upset about this as if she did not have me advocating for her and supporting her she would be alone with no-one to explain about her. Can I ask if anyone thinks the bloods should have been done sooner for Mum so that she did not get to such a state of dehydration and should I take this up with the care home. I have already spoken to them about the paperwork which they said was sent and may have got mislaid in A&E on the night? I also feel upset the carer told me it was just the disease progressing as they are not experts to make this observation particularly when she was severely dehydrated and ill.
Any thoughts? Many thanks, Sarah
I wrote last week very worried about my Mum who was very sleepy and deteriorating rapidly. I wasn't sure if this was caused by sudden progression of her disease. I had been trying to check out her meds previously as she seemed sedated all the time - however her sleeping suddenly became increased, she wasn't eating and could not formulate any words etc.
I was especially concerned about her not eating and the care home told me the food was remaining in her mouth as she wasn't swallowing; I noticed there were a lot of food remnants round her mouth and moisture/food dribble under her chin which was causing her neck to be red and sore and I had asked a couple of times about her welfare and meds. One of the nurses said they had requested a blood test the previous Friday and on Tuesday when I asked again they said they were waiting for a form to complete. One of the carers told me 'it was the disease progressing'.
I had replies from some lovely people on here last week but want to let you know that on Thursday night the care finally home got the blood tests back which showed Mum's sodium levels as very high and she was admitted to hospital with severe dehydration and an infection. I sat with her for 5 hours in A&E before going to an assessment ward. This has caused me a lot of distress not to mention her, bless her. She is now in a ward and remaining in hospital at the moment.
When she was first admitted to the assessment ward after A&E they could not find her papers which the care home said they sent; they also had no medications for her as these were not sent. I do feel upset about this as if she did not have me advocating for her and supporting her she would be alone with no-one to explain about her. Can I ask if anyone thinks the bloods should have been done sooner for Mum so that she did not get to such a state of dehydration and should I take this up with the care home. I have already spoken to them about the paperwork which they said was sent and may have got mislaid in A&E on the night? I also feel upset the carer told me it was just the disease progressing as they are not experts to make this observation particularly when she was severely dehydrated and ill.
Any thoughts? Many thanks, Sarah