Well that day , that I never thought would arrive has. She's been in hospital since December 30th and I think I'm coming to terms with the fact that she just can't look after herself . she wasn't showering, making food, couldn't use the phone or the telly and was wearing clothes she slept in.
The home I've chosen is brand new and I've already left a few knick knacks in for her. A doctor spoke to her today and said she was moving on as part of her rehab but she's telling me she's not going ...she's going home. She doesn't know her address but will know her house when she sees it !
I know its probably for the best but I feel so sad that this is how my mum has become. The home have asked me not to visit for a few days to give her a chance to settle but she looks for me and gets distressed if no one comes to see her
I feel sick at the thought of it
The home I've chosen is brand new and I've already left a few knick knacks in for her. A doctor spoke to her today and said she was moving on as part of her rehab but she's telling me she's not going ...she's going home. She doesn't know her address but will know her house when she sees it !
I know its probably for the best but I feel so sad that this is how my mum has become. The home have asked me not to visit for a few days to give her a chance to settle but she looks for me and gets distressed if no one comes to see her
I feel sick at the thought of it