Hi I haven't posted on here for a while things are not good with mum right now. She's changed I knew this would happen but don't make it any easier. Her moods are really bad she's swearing and shouting and causing arguments nearly every day. Dad can't cope with it and says he wants to leave. I'm struggling with it and feel I have failed in looking after my mum. My health is suffering as I can't sleep worrying what mum will do next. How do you cope with it. I have tried listening to her and letting her get it out of a system. Then I get your just take your dad's side I have no one. For 2 weeks I took her to a day centre she's refusing to go back because she says she's not like them people. Doctor has upped her anti-depressants to see if that will help but this last week has been a nightmare. Sorry to rant but needed to let it out. Cried so much feel like I failed