1. Anniebell

    Anniebell Registered User

    Jan 31, 2015
    115
    Hi everyone not been here for a while my darling mum passed away 10/11/2016 very peacefully
    I'm going to miss mum terribly but I know she's at peace now hopefully with Dad
    i will keep dipping in to see how people are doing but just want to say a huge thankyou to everyone who has supported me with kind words and good advice I hope you all have the best Christmas you can have ,sending you and your loved ones love and best wishes
    stay strong (so hard)
    Cry (it's ok)
    Get annoyed (only natural)
    Guilt monster( don't let it eat
    You)
    In time the bad memories fade
    And we will only remember
    Good and happy times
    Take care
    Annie
     
  2. LadyA

    LadyA Registered User

    Oct 19, 2009
    13,551
    Ireland
    Sorry to hear about the loss of your mum. Yes, it's good to know that she's at peace - but that doesn't lessen your own loss or grief, especially at this time of year, when we are bombarded with images of the idealistic "happy family". Be very kind to yourself. xx
     
  3. chellebowen

    chellebowen Registered User

    Nov 12, 2015
    6
    Essex
    Hi Annie,

    I am really sorry for your loss of your mum specially at this time of year.

    I lost my mum last October to this illness and it is horrible.

    As you say stay strong and in a weird way things get easier. I think for me it was knowng she was not stuck in the room where she was bed bound and not being able to get around and at such a young age as she was only 53.

    I believe now she is looking down watching me and seeing all the stages of my life I am embarking on.

    Take care :)

    xx
     
  4. Shedrech

    Shedrech Volunteer Moderator

    Dec 15, 2012
    8,298
    Yorkshire
    hi Anniebell
    sorry to read your sad news - my condolences to you
    even with a peaceful end it's so hard to lose our mum
    so as LadyA says go gently and take care of yourself
    I'm glad TP is a support to you; do keep us up to date
    best wishes
     
  5. Anniebell

    Anniebell Registered User

    Jan 31, 2015
    115
    LadyA
    Thankyou it's going to be hard at Christmas I'm going to miss mum so much she's been my number one priority for the last few years I'm completely lost without her I have a lovely supportive family my hubby is my rock my two gorgeous grandchildren 6 and 8 I'm sure will bring a smile to my face but it won't be the same without mum
    Take Care
    Annie
     
  6. Anniebell

    Anniebell Registered User

    Jan 31, 2015
    115
    Chellebowen
    So sorry to hear about your mum and at such a young age my mum was the same bed bound and your right you do take comfort from knowing they are not suffering that anymore and Ido hope they are looking down on us I told my son that nan will always be with us every step of the way for the rest of our lives and she won't miss any special times
    Times a great healer they say and things get easier doesn't feel like it right now but I know it will
    I'm sending you a big hug thanks for taking the time to reply
    Take Care
    Annie
     
  7. chellebowen

    chellebowen Registered User

    Nov 12, 2015
    6
    Essex
    Annie,

    Its horrible to see isn't it and you feel sometimes why are you going through this as that person does not deserve this pain.

    That is very nice and comforting for your son and I do believe she is watching and so proud of you all.

    It is so hard and sometimes not wanting to accept what has happened, but I just try to relive some of the moments I had and do great things that I know she is watching over me.

    Even though its going to be very hard but have a lovely Christmas... Make it a good one in memory of your mum
    x
     
  8. Anniebell

    Anniebell Registered User

    Jan 31, 2015
    115
    Shedrech
    Thankyou I will pop in from time to time and your right it's so hard loosing our mum the person that truly unconditionally loved us l lost my Dad over 3 years ago I was devastated but this feels different
    Take Care
    Annie
     
  9. Anniebell

    Anniebell Registered User

    Jan 31, 2015
    115
    I hope you have a lovely Christmas too we will take a walk down memory lane raise a glass and a smile
    Annie x
     
  10. Amy in the US

    Amy in the US Registered User

    Feb 28, 2015
    4,619
    USA
    Annie, I'm sorry to read your news. Please accept my condolences on the death of your mother. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts. Best wishes.
     
  11. Anniebell

    Anniebell Registered User

    Jan 31, 2015
    115
    Thankyou Amy
    Take Care
    Annie
     
  12. SadScot

    SadScot Registered User

    Jun 28, 2016
    23
    I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you x
     
  13. Anniebell

    Anniebell Registered User

    Jan 31, 2015
    115
    Thankyou sadScot hope you have a good
    Christmas
    Take Care
    Annie
     

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