This is only my second post. My husband and I were looking after mum who has Alzheimer's and Vascular Dementia from last July until March this year in her own home in Norfolk (I was on leave from work). My husband and I were still willing to look after mum if she moved back with us to York but she didn't want that. She didn't want to have carers in her home either and was adamant she wanted to leave her home and the area. My other sister took over from us in April on leave from work and arranged for her to go into a home an hour from her in Somerset. Mum moved in today assisted by 2 of my sisters. They have just left and mum has phoned me twice. She is adamant she is leaving tomorrow and does not want to be there and my sister told me she is threatening to kill herself. Any advice helpful. Will she settle? What is the best thing to do?