I AM DUE TO TAKE MY MOTHER IN LAW FOR HER VISIT TO A SPECIALIST ON THE 30.10.03 AND WOULD BE GRATEFUL IF ANYONE COULD TELL ME WHAT TO EXPECT, DO I NEED TO TAKE ANY "NOTES" WITH ME REGARDING MUMS SYMPTOMS BECAUSE ALTHOUGH MUM IS VERY MUCH IN THE STAGES OF DEMENTIA (OR COULD IT BE ALZHEIMERS? I DONT KNOW THE DIFFERENCE) I SOMETIMES FEEL SHE IS VERY MUCH AWARE OF WHAT IS GOING ON AND AS SHE IS TOTALLY UNAWARE OF HAVING ANY ILLNESS I WOULD BE RELUCTANT TO ANSWER ANY QUESTIONS ASKED OF ME IN FRONT OF HER. ALSO WOULD IT HELP THE CASE IF WE TRIED TO INSTILL IN MUM THAT SHE INDEED HAS AN ILLNESS AND THAT IS THE REASON SHE CAN NO LONGER LOOK AFTER HERSELF AND THE REASON SHE CANT GO TO THE SHOPS AND THE REASON HER FAMILY ARE WITH HER 24/7, ALL OF WHICH SHE QUESTIONS EVERYDAY. AS HER SHORT TERM MEMORY IS NON EXISTENT WE THOUGHT WHAT IS THE POINT OF TELLING HER SHE IS ILL, WOULD SHE REMEMBER AND ACCEPT IT. AN INSIGHT FROM ANYONE ON WHAT THE SPECIALIST WILL DO AND WHAT FOLLOWS AFTER THAT WOULD BE APPREICIATED.
MANY THANKS
CATHY
MANY THANKS
CATHY