I cant believe how i get treated! I have just rang my dad he snapped at me what do U want! I explained in the way many of you have said that id still like to help but the boys cant be around that, he said i do it on purpose i dig and dig and i should just leave it and it wud blow over, he said we should understand her condition and i want my own way as usual, he said he will not be visiting me again without mum as he will not go against her,
I said i dont want you to go against her! I said WE can understand but 5 yrs olds cant, he said theyr mardy children and besides kids forget things anyway so it wont bother them, he said why would she buy them both easter eggs if she didnt like 1 of them! I said its not about buying things! He just said yeah yeah bye! And mum was ranting in the background, i didnt lose my rag and he still didnt listen i said i dont want to fall out, he said yeah yeah see ya when i see ya . Maybe its time i gave up x
How dare he. I am incensed on your behalf. Sorry, but NO-ONE would get away with saying that about my children or grandchildren.
Take some time out. Give your parents space and maybe in your absence, your dad will reflect on his attitude.
Just a thought...has he always been like this, or could he be having 'problems' too?