My mum was diagnosed roughly 6 months ago, shes 68 shed okay in her day to day living and caring forherself and goes shopping etc so isnt at the stage of needing a full time carer on the outset she appears fine.
She has always been a negative and opinionated person this has got worse. she has rages and mood swings at only me my dad and 1 of my twins. I can ignore it but my little boy whos 5 is going to be affected.
Basically she is always laying into him has uncontrollable outbursts accuses him of being a liar screams n shouts at him wenever she visits , its getting to severe and he doesnt like her anymore .
The problem is my dad we have fallen out agsin today because i said she will have to go home if she cant be right with my son.dad says i should ignore it and that my son is tough , he says im very wrong to tell them to leave and theyv now gone she stormed out and he blames me.
Now am i going completely nuts here or am i in the right for protecting my son?! Dad says u know her condition u shud ignore. I said i can but my son cant ( the twins are only 5) how can i get my dad to realise without keep falling out with them both as i want to support them as dad is poorly with lung disease but they wont speak to me for weeks now
Also mum isnt nasty or aggresive with her friends or other people so y cant she control it i think she plays on it. She literally goes beserk and has also done it infront of the kids before screaming saying my child needs slapping over the top behaviour which is very upsetting . What does every1 think n how can i get my dad to see my point about the kids? Xx thx for reading
She has always been a negative and opinionated person this has got worse. she has rages and mood swings at only me my dad and 1 of my twins. I can ignore it but my little boy whos 5 is going to be affected.
Basically she is always laying into him has uncontrollable outbursts accuses him of being a liar screams n shouts at him wenever she visits , its getting to severe and he doesnt like her anymore .
The problem is my dad we have fallen out agsin today because i said she will have to go home if she cant be right with my son.dad says i should ignore it and that my son is tough , he says im very wrong to tell them to leave and theyv now gone she stormed out and he blames me.
Now am i going completely nuts here or am i in the right for protecting my son?! Dad says u know her condition u shud ignore. I said i can but my son cant ( the twins are only 5) how can i get my dad to realise without keep falling out with them both as i want to support them as dad is poorly with lung disease but they wont speak to me for weeks now
Also mum isnt nasty or aggresive with her friends or other people so y cant she control it i think she plays on it. She literally goes beserk and has also done it infront of the kids before screaming saying my child needs slapping over the top behaviour which is very upsetting . What does every1 think n how can i get my dad to see my point about the kids? Xx thx for reading