Hello to everyone
I was after a bit of advice from someone who may have experience in this...
Mum has three carers who come in over the course of the week. Two of whom she really likes and can't praise highly enough. The other however I hear nothing but criticism about. To the point where when she leaves Mum will be really low and down about herself. Apparently, and I can of course only go by what Mum says, this carer is a 'young girl' and a 'right thicko'!!!!! She apparently hardly speaks to Mum and they sit and listen to music until the time is up then she leaves. Now due to Mums praise about the other two, I am happy to take Mums word about this carer, or at least believe that they just haven't clicked. The other two carers are more Mums age and very proactive shall we say about what they do with Mum - house work, walks, reading the paper to her, going to town etc etc. So how do I address this? Should I call the manager of the care company up and ask for this girl not to visit Mum? How do I explain that Mum views her as a 'thicko' and wants someone with more intellegence?! Gosh that sounds bad! Hence me asking here rather than phoning up and insulting this woman!
Any advice would be welcome. Thank you.
Amy
I was after a bit of advice from someone who may have experience in this...
Mum has three carers who come in over the course of the week. Two of whom she really likes and can't praise highly enough. The other however I hear nothing but criticism about. To the point where when she leaves Mum will be really low and down about herself. Apparently, and I can of course only go by what Mum says, this carer is a 'young girl' and a 'right thicko'!!!!! She apparently hardly speaks to Mum and they sit and listen to music until the time is up then she leaves. Now due to Mums praise about the other two, I am happy to take Mums word about this carer, or at least believe that they just haven't clicked. The other two carers are more Mums age and very proactive shall we say about what they do with Mum - house work, walks, reading the paper to her, going to town etc etc. So how do I address this? Should I call the manager of the care company up and ask for this girl not to visit Mum? How do I explain that Mum views her as a 'thicko' and wants someone with more intellegence?! Gosh that sounds bad! Hence me asking here rather than phoning up and insulting this woman!
Any advice would be welcome. Thank you.
Amy