Those that know my story know that I had a nervous breakdown. Mum had yet another fall, this time fracturing her pelvis and send straight to a NH from hospital. She's has been there over 4 months now, yes 4 months! SW been on 2 weeks leave apparently and she visited Mum 3 weeks ago.
Mum doubly incontinent, bed ridden because cannot weight bear, asthmatic, weighs 5 stone 10 and she no longer even remembers where she lives. I have told the SW that if they send her home to let me know who to give the keys to because I am not having any hands on involvement with my Mum. She's not too bad to others, but absolutely evil to me and I cannot go back to feeling suicidal again. Guess I just want some reassurance that she won't be sent home. Nowadays it seems to be more about money than the welfare of the person so it just wouldn't surprise me if they send her home.
Mum doubly incontinent, bed ridden because cannot weight bear, asthmatic, weighs 5 stone 10 and she no longer even remembers where she lives. I have told the SW that if they send her home to let me know who to give the keys to because I am not having any hands on involvement with my Mum. She's not too bad to others, but absolutely evil to me and I cannot go back to feeling suicidal again. Guess I just want some reassurance that she won't be sent home. Nowadays it seems to be more about money than the welfare of the person so it just wouldn't surprise me if they send her home.