After 4 years battling to get mum to the geriatrician and getting this apt the social worker informed me that my mother dosnt want me to go as she claims when we are at the doctors I "talk over her?" this is absolute rubbish I sit there and say nothing until the doc asks me things or I explain to mum what the doc has said. I've been to mums doc on my own several times to discuss her moods behaviour etc. I know my mum is saying this as she's afraid illI tell the truth .I've waited so long to finally speak to a geriatrician about her behaviour etc and now my brother is taking her? So now if geriatrician wants to know about her care behaviour what is my brother going to tell him that shes fine and turn it into a bitching session about me? If im not allowed go even though im her carer24/7 could I insist that the geriatrician speak only to mum and not to have my brother present? It's going to set all this back years now and they need to know her behaviour is typical of dementia? So fed up with this and feel the medical profession are not taking my concerns seriously. Mum is playing everyone and I'm so sick of this Brother desperate to get rid of me and out of the house and mum in a home? Please advise found sw very abusive to me and very disrespectful as mums carer for 9yrs. Siblings couldn't careless about poor mum just want her in a home so they dont have to care for her shes just a burden to them.