Hi Everyone
It would have been Mum's birthday on Monday and we had a firework party. We found some beautiful and noisey ones. She would have loved it and it made me wonder why I didn't do it while she was still here...Why do we wait until it is too late?
It's been 34 weeks since she passed and I am still expecting to see her in her room and coming down in the night to check on her.
What is the hardest though is that everyone seems to know what is best for me, what I should be doing and how I should be feeling. My government seems to have expectations of me, now being unemployed, but what about my expectations? They really seem to begrudge the £64.30 a week they pay me and the little of the rent and council tax they pay.
I have slid into a depression which they are saying is not a proper mental health issue and will give me no leway.
Over 30 years I spent as Mum's carer about 25 of those with her every day probably spending more time with her than couples spend together the entire time they are together and I am having trouble adjusting to her loss and finding my way.
How can I get these people to understan when I don't? But they still pound away at me making me say the same things over and over again.
I seem to have no fight or faith left............
It would have been Mum's birthday on Monday and we had a firework party. We found some beautiful and noisey ones. She would have loved it and it made me wonder why I didn't do it while she was still here...Why do we wait until it is too late?
It's been 34 weeks since she passed and I am still expecting to see her in her room and coming down in the night to check on her.
What is the hardest though is that everyone seems to know what is best for me, what I should be doing and how I should be feeling. My government seems to have expectations of me, now being unemployed, but what about my expectations? They really seem to begrudge the £64.30 a week they pay me and the little of the rent and council tax they pay.
I have slid into a depression which they are saying is not a proper mental health issue and will give me no leway.
Over 30 years I spent as Mum's carer about 25 of those with her every day probably spending more time with her than couples spend together the entire time they are together and I am having trouble adjusting to her loss and finding my way.
How can I get these people to understan when I don't? But they still pound away at me making me say the same things over and over again.
I seem to have no fight or faith left............