My mum is in a home after having a fall. Her dementia has got worse and the mental capacity has meant she was not allowed home to her bungalow. The decision taken out of my hands.
The problem I have is every time I visit she cries and wants to go back home. I have asked her where is home and it is not where her bungalow is but where she grew up. She doesn't want to be where she is because of the other residents. She is a loner always has been shy of other people and doesn't want to mix.
How do I approach the fact she cannot come home. Has anyone else had a similar dilemma?
Nenny
The problem I have is every time I visit she cries and wants to go back home. I have asked her where is home and it is not where her bungalow is but where she grew up. She doesn't want to be where she is because of the other residents. She is a loner always has been shy of other people and doesn't want to mix.
How do I approach the fact she cannot come home. Has anyone else had a similar dilemma?
Nenny