So sad My mum now thinks that her home is where she lived with her parents in London. It seems that all her memories since she was a teenager have disappeared. I took her out of the CH for a trip to the shops last week and mentioned mother's day - she said she must get her mum something and asked me if I'd seen her recently. She's recently started introducing me as her sister although she still calls me by my name - I always knew but hoped she would never get to this stage, it's heartbreaking. I've just managed to find a job again after 2 years caring for her, and she would have been really pleased for me and told me not to work too hard etc, but there was hardly any response from her and I realised there is no one left now who knew me as a child or knows my history. Hindsight is not a wonderful thing, it's hurtful and guilt making, and I wish so many things I could have done differently.