My mum constantly packs her belongings in the home and keeps asking to go home, unfortunately this has got worse recently. I can normally calm her down but now unfortunately she now wants to be picked up from work and to be taken home all the time . She yells at me and gets abusive on the phone and when I arrive at her care home. both my siblings have died and her husband of 62 years passed away 6 weeks ago in the same care home. She wants all of them to visit and she feels they do not love her anymore. There has been a large decline in her condition and would like any advice on ways of trying to calm her down and feel more settled. She is in a lovely care home, bright colourful and happy. I know it is not the staff and they are fantastic and so caring.