Mum is 91 and has had dementia for quite a long time. We have carers going in four times a day and I was visiting several times. She lives alone in her own house and is now constantly in bed apart from toilet visits. She doesn't like people visiting, just wants to be left alone. When I go she won't visit the bathroom if I am in the house and just wants to sleep. She has always been a very private person and doesn't li me people around her. She hasn't eaten now for about ten days so I feel that the end can't be long. Anyone else experienced this level of wanting to be alone.