Hello All,
New here but regular reader. My Mum has Alzheimer's, lives with Dad who is her Carer. I live 230 miles away but visit two weekends a month. My brother and cousin live closer. I regularly meet M & D on zoom / phone and mostly Mum is "alright" Last night she told me she had been kidnapped by this "Man" (Dad), didn't know where she was and wanted to go home. We have had similar conversations but not on the level of being kidnapped! I really didn't know what to say to her - any advice?! Classic sundowning time too - late afternoon.
She was quite calm as she is on higher does of ADs, now on mematine and recently been prescribed an anti-psychotic drug, which i think has calmed her down a lot. Well, she wasn't crying or aggressive last night, more like "stoned" poor lady.
My cousin went round later and seem to have turned it round.
I'd be interested if there are any tips what Dad and others can say to Mum in these situations of "kidnap".
Thank you, Mike
New here but regular reader. My Mum has Alzheimer's, lives with Dad who is her Carer. I live 230 miles away but visit two weekends a month. My brother and cousin live closer. I regularly meet M & D on zoom / phone and mostly Mum is "alright" Last night she told me she had been kidnapped by this "Man" (Dad), didn't know where she was and wanted to go home. We have had similar conversations but not on the level of being kidnapped! I really didn't know what to say to her - any advice?! Classic sundowning time too - late afternoon.
She was quite calm as she is on higher does of ADs, now on mematine and recently been prescribed an anti-psychotic drug, which i think has calmed her down a lot. Well, she wasn't crying or aggressive last night, more like "stoned" poor lady.
My cousin went round later and seem to have turned it round.
I'd be interested if there are any tips what Dad and others can say to Mum in these situations of "kidnap".
Thank you, Mike