Several years ago Mum had bowel op for diverticular disease. Since then her bowels have been unpredictable but manageable. Mum got into habit of taking Imodium to cope with symptoms because one Dr said it would do no harm to have it occasionally to cope with diarrhoea,(every other Dr said she should only have them if going out for the day or on a long journey). Over time this became habitual and we had terrible problems with her begging for one in the morning if her bowels were upset and then pleading with me for opening medicine in the afternoon because she felt bloated!
I have managed to get her off them and she complains less but still has 'issues' in that dept. I have said no more Imodium or laxatives till she sees a Dr for further investigation. I don't know whether she is scared or just thinks that at her age she would rather put up with it than have any investigations or testing. However I find it hard, she can easily spend an hour in the loo and the staff at her day centre says she is the same there and thinks she should see a Dr. I have POA for finances but not wellbeing/health and I know that she would not consent to further testing unless she was in a great deal of pain. What have others done when their relative refuses to see Dr or beyond that refuses treatment?
I have managed to get her off them and she complains less but still has 'issues' in that dept. I have said no more Imodium or laxatives till she sees a Dr for further investigation. I don't know whether she is scared or just thinks that at her age she would rather put up with it than have any investigations or testing. However I find it hard, she can easily spend an hour in the loo and the staff at her day centre says she is the same there and thinks she should see a Dr. I have POA for finances but not wellbeing/health and I know that she would not consent to further testing unless she was in a great deal of pain. What have others done when their relative refuses to see Dr or beyond that refuses treatment?