My mum has dimentia for the past 2 years as me my wife and our 9 month old live with her I’m a full time worker and my wife is staying home with my mum as she can’t stay alone we have carers on from a agency for the past 2 years we had to swap agencies as some of them could not match my mums routine now finally we have found a agency that can come on time and are ok with my mums routine things were going well for the first couple of months and now my sometime my mom won’t do anything with out my wife eating showering etc so that means I have to do less hours at work to come home so I can look after baby etc while all this is going on we are looking for a pa personal
Assistant for my mom we have had so many interviews but can not find the right one and the caseworker who is helping me find a pa suggested that what if my wife becomes the pa as she is with my mum literally all the time which I thought was a good idea then I won’t have to go work that much etc probably do part time so I mentioned it to our social worker and she said that this can’t be done because of the baby I can’t find any other way because we get carers 3 times a day and sometimes it’s ok but most of the time my wife has to help which causing a affect on my work aswell as I work on a shift rota and then me coming early home is not looking good on me
I just want some advice from n what I can do
Assistant for my mom we have had so many interviews but can not find the right one and the caseworker who is helping me find a pa suggested that what if my wife becomes the pa as she is with my mum literally all the time which I thought was a good idea then I won’t have to go work that much etc probably do part time so I mentioned it to our social worker and she said that this can’t be done because of the baby I can’t find any other way because we get carers 3 times a day and sometimes it’s ok but most of the time my wife has to help which causing a affect on my work aswell as I work on a shift rota and then me coming early home is not looking good on me
I just want some advice from n what I can do