My Mum finally left hospital today to go into a care home. We had taken her to see the home a couple of weeks ago and she seemed to like it and was looking forward to going. Even when we arrived there today she still seemed happy to be moving into her new home. Then she had contact with a couple of the residents who are in a much more advanced stage of dementia than Mum and her mood changed. She suddenly hated it and didn't want to stay. I explained it was going to be alright but she wasn't convinced. When I left she didn't cry and ask me to take her with me, which is an improvement from her early days in hospital. But I'm not hopeful that she won't be upset the next time I visit her.
I feel terrible. It's as if it is all starting again. I feel so sorry for her. her dementia doesn't seem that bad to me, a little confused maybe but also quite lucid too. I don't know whether to ask the doctors if she could try going back to the sheltered housing scheme she was in. But then I think that is just me wanting to make things better for Mum and I don't have any idea if that would be a good move or not. I fear that where she is she may not get the stimulation she needs.
I would love to jack everything in and move with my wife to the coast and spend our days reading books, going for walks and living a life without a care. Perhaps, perhaps.....
I feel terrible. It's as if it is all starting again. I feel so sorry for her. her dementia doesn't seem that bad to me, a little confused maybe but also quite lucid too. I don't know whether to ask the doctors if she could try going back to the sheltered housing scheme she was in. But then I think that is just me wanting to make things better for Mum and I don't have any idea if that would be a good move or not. I fear that where she is she may not get the stimulation she needs.
I would love to jack everything in and move with my wife to the coast and spend our days reading books, going for walks and living a life without a care. Perhaps, perhaps.....