Hi my mum still lives at home alone with a lot of help from my brother and I. Physically she is still quite good and doesn't need any help with dressing, washing etc. We have carers going in twice a day to give her breakfast and tea with meals on wheels going in at lunch time. She likes to think she is in dependant but ready we sort everything out for her and she peers around, she also goes to a day centre 3 day's a week. The problem we have is washing as we know, through putting things in the bath carefully, that she hadn't had a bath or shower for at least a month probably a lot longer. She said to me the other day when I told her I knew she hadn't used the bath that she just strip washes but I don't even know if that is right as the soap has hardly been used. I have tried to pursued her but she won't as a far as she's concerned she has washed and there isn't a problem! There is no way she will let anyone bath her at all - I don't know what to do any ideas?