Hi, my sister and I have just registered as we are feel like we are walking in treacle every day. We had been mum's carer (she is 90 with vascular dementia and sundowners) for 3 years, covering 13 hours a day. In December we moved her to a lovely care home which is for residential dementia. She is not settling at all well, saying she is frightened all the time. She is very agitated and has started to become angry, shouting to call the police and that she is being held a prisoner against her will. She tells us that we are bad daughters. She was recently started on sertraline but we have noticed in 3 weeks her mood has gone down, not up; she is also on rispiridone, which was started a week ago. The home hints that they may not be able to keep her and we will be back to square one searching again. Mom's dementia is not low category or high category but somewhere in between both and no-one seems to cater for this stage?? We are at a loss what to do in case we are asked to move her. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated right now. Thank you for listening.