Mum moved into a care home today. Unfortunately she is very confused by it all and the repetitive questions are constant as is her clinging. I had hoped things would have gone a little bit more smoothly. I know that it's early days but I can see the hoped for quality time with Mum being just a dream. I'm not sure that she's capable of adapting to a new routine. I desperately need a rest and Mums mobility has forced the move. It's a really nice room, in a really good home just 2 minutes from where I live. Mum is on a trial and I am frightened that if she doesn't settle she will end up miles away in a much worse place. We live in rural Scotland and the nearest emi unit is 18 miles away so we have little choice.