Hi, I'm Brenda. I live in Switzerland but have one brother who lives in Surrey. Mum is not doing well (she lives on her own and refuses any kind of help). We can no longer have her assessed at the memory clinic and by the doc. as she refuses to go. The time will come when my brother and I will have to place her in a care home. My question is as in the title. I'm trying my best to take some of the workload off my brother but not having lived in England since I was 20 I really don't know how things work in England. I hope I'm on the right forum here - sorry if I'm not.