Mum is on the way back to god.

[peggy1967]

My mum aged 86 with adv dementia, totally dependant on others has recently contracted aspirated pnemonia and is in palliative care within the home.

I have been with mum as her carer and son for the past 12 yrs at home until there was no better choice than for mum to go in to resi care a few weeks ago.

I love my mum, she is my best friend and I know I am so fortunate to have mum. Mum knows i love her a d i know mum loves me.

Mums quality of life has deteriated so much, that with love and wanting the best for mum, when mum returns to god i know mum will be at peace a happy and sad time.

Mums name is Peggy. If you can send a thought to god to look after mum.

 

[Izzy]

I'm so sorry to read your sad news. You have clearly been the best son for your mum and you know that she loves you. Wishing your mum peace and wishing you strength. Please keep posting here,. You're both in my thoughts.

 

[love.dad.but..]

I am wishing you strength over the coming days during such a difficult time but your mum has the comfort of such a loving and caring son with her as she nears the end of her illness. Thinking of you both

 

[canary]

(((((hugs))))) @peggy1967
This is a difficult twilight zone time, when you know the end is coming, but have to wait and the waiting seems unbearable.
Prayers have already winged their way

 

[karaokePete]

I hope you find the inner strength you need at this time. I will send a thought for both you and your mum.

 

[Bunpoots]

Sending you strength, and a prayer for your mum.

 

[LadyA]

Wishing you strength and endurance for the days and weeks ahead, and thinking of your mum on her journey.

 

[jaymor]

So sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking of you as you move forward, wishing you strength as you care for your Mum at this time and she remains peaceful.

 

[nellbelles]

Wishing you strength whilst you support your much loved Mum on her journey

 

[Sisu50]

So sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking of you as you move forward, wishing you strength as you care for your Mum at this time and she remains peaceful.

 

[Sisu50]

I am so sorry to hear your distressing news. I, too, am in a really sad place. I have looked after my mum and dad for three and a half years with the great help of family and a team of wonderful carers. Mum has advanced alzheimers and dad had vascular dementia. Last Monday he had a fall and to cut a long story extremely short, mum had to go into a care home on Friday evening this week and dad died in hospital on Saturday evening. The word numb does not come into it.........

 

[karaokePete]

I am so sorry to hear your distressing news. I, too, am in a really sad place. I have looked after my mum and dad for three and a half years with the great help of family and a team of wonderful carers. Mum has advanced alzheimers and dad had vascular dementia. Last Monday he had a fall and to cut a long story extremely short, mum had to go into a care home on Friday evening this week and dad died in hospital on Saturday evening. The word numb does not come into it.........

My thoughts are with you at such a sad time.

 

[CraftyJ]

Peggy1967 - so sorry to hear your situation and I too am sending prayers for you and your mum in these next few days.

SiSu50 - my condolences to you on the loss of your dad, so soon after your mum going into care. Words cant express how you must feel. My heartfelt thoughts to you too and your family. x

 

[LadyA]

I am so sorry to hear your distressing news. I, too, am in a really sad place. I have looked after my mum and dad for three and a half years with the great help of family and a team of wonderful carers. Mum has advanced alzheimers and dad had vascular dementia. Last Monday he had a fall and to cut a long story extremely short, mum had to go into a care home on Friday evening this week and dad died in hospital on Saturday evening. The word numb does not come into it.........

I'm so sorry. What a heartbreaking time for you.

 

[Babymare01]

You are in my thoughts xx

 

[Izzy]

@Sisu50 I'm so sorry to read your sad news. Sending my condolences.