My mum is 65 and has Alzheimer’s. Our dad died suddenly a year ago and my sister and I try and care for her as best we can. Lately she’s doing crazy things with spending money. I want to know if the following Is this part of the condition and is it normal??
I got a text from my uncle to say all her furniture had been collected. We knew nothing about it. She had got rid of an expensive leather sofa, her dining table and all the furniture downstairs as she wanted new stuff. But hadn’t actually ordered anything.
All the stuff was lovely and nothing wrong with it.
Then she got a decorator to paint all downstairs. Now she wants him to do upstairs and for a new en-suite and a new bathroom - it’s brand new and she doesn’t need a new one. If my dad was here he’d be going mental.
Do I accept that it’s her money and she can do this stuff or step in as this is just madness now.
I’ve read other threads and mum also hoards food, I found it in the garage. It was bad at Xmas when she ended up with almost 300 mince pies and 30 boxes of satsumas.
I got a text from my uncle to say all her furniture had been collected. We knew nothing about it. She had got rid of an expensive leather sofa, her dining table and all the furniture downstairs as she wanted new stuff. But hadn’t actually ordered anything.
All the stuff was lovely and nothing wrong with it.
Then she got a decorator to paint all downstairs. Now she wants him to do upstairs and for a new en-suite and a new bathroom - it’s brand new and she doesn’t need a new one. If my dad was here he’d be going mental.
Do I accept that it’s her money and she can do this stuff or step in as this is just madness now.
I’ve read other threads and mum also hoards food, I found it in the garage. It was bad at Xmas when she ended up with almost 300 mince pies and 30 boxes of satsumas.