Mum is in respite just now, she went there from hospital over the Christmas holidays. I have been over to see her but i don't go everyday (have spoken to her on the phone)as she wants to come home with me and it upsets her when i have to say no you stay here as its only for x number of days, which she then seems to understand. I call the repite place everyday she is there to see how she is, they are very good at telling me how she is, you know the likes of she wandered into the wrong room, she had a bad night that sort of thing, which is more than what i normally get from her usually respite place. Anyway, i called this morning, they are trying to get a urine sample as they think she may have a UTI as she is a bit confused, she seems to have been more confused there than her normal place, now i don't know if thats because she has a UTI or the other place don't like to tell me she is confused or not settling, which leads me to think she must be unsettled/ confused at her normal place if she is unsettled/ confused at this one, then its a case of why don't they tell me which leads to the thought of what else are they keeping from me?