due to circumstances my mum of 87yrs had to leave her home, after a year long struggle she was given a tenancy in housing with care 2weeks ago, she has deteriated since going there having taken diahorea i have been frought with problems, had to change doctor who said he could not do much till her records come through,was uncaring in attitude said "she is very old" i have been treating this and now got it stopped, think her thyroid tablet has been going through her too, so she is weak, sleeping a lot and walking bad,asked to have her tablets boxed so care staff can administrate them but still waiting, she is not able to walk to restuarant for tea key worker said this cannot go on, i offered to come in and make her something but she does not seem to want this,said mum was refusing to shower (washing herself down) she is used to a bath, and problems with not producing washing, mum is used to putting clothes in machine and cant seem to grasp it when i ask her to put them in basket so is putting them back in drawers, she brought up my visiting every day and said there was no need, but need to see mum gets her pills, all this and more was said in front of mum and she started crying, which made me angry, am i being over protective? know mum is going downhill and am worried, not eating much now, i suggested i get wheelchair for carers to take her for tea, so that seems to have solved things for now, i would appreciate your thoughts on this, thanks.