Well this is not going so well!! Please dear friends if you have any energy if be grateful for input!!
Mum went into care home. Originally 2 weeks respite then everyone decided she should stay there for her safety!
Was going quite good. Care home really good reputation , manager is fairly new and have to say she and I haven't hit it off! My sisters get on ok with her so happy to admit its me!! We didn't visit for first little while to get mum settled. Going good then last week deputy manager said thought mum had water infection! I was impressed and we all tried to get sample. They did and appeared to be slight one. Manager came back and said mum didn't have any symptoms and said needed another test. Never been done!! I know my mum isn't quite right!
Last night she was up quite a lot! Managed to get on the office in the middle of the night and managed to phone the police!! Wanting to go home!!
Now I'm not overly impressed as sister went in today and manager said we are going on too much and unsettling mum!! There are 3 sisters so difficult!
Any advice because at this moment I'm so angry that they didn't realise my mum was up and in the office!! So much for being checked!!
Anyway I'm biased so before I go and visit in the morning - any tips please??
Xx
Mum went into care home. Originally 2 weeks respite then everyone decided she should stay there for her safety!
Was going quite good. Care home really good reputation , manager is fairly new and have to say she and I haven't hit it off! My sisters get on ok with her so happy to admit its me!! We didn't visit for first little while to get mum settled. Going good then last week deputy manager said thought mum had water infection! I was impressed and we all tried to get sample. They did and appeared to be slight one. Manager came back and said mum didn't have any symptoms and said needed another test. Never been done!! I know my mum isn't quite right!
Last night she was up quite a lot! Managed to get on the office in the middle of the night and managed to phone the police!! Wanting to go home!!
Now I'm not overly impressed as sister went in today and manager said we are going on too much and unsettling mum!! There are 3 sisters so difficult!
Any advice because at this moment I'm so angry that they didn't realise my mum was up and in the office!! So much for being checked!!
Anyway I'm biased so before I go and visit in the morning - any tips please??
Xx