- Feb 27, 2018
I know what you mean. I've been organising my mother's care for over 4 years (she's now in a CH). She is happy as Larry, she has constant help, reassurance and comfort. She doesn't have a care in the world, she doesn't even know Brexit or coronavirus exist. It's me who has had to sort out her care for the past four years, taking responsibility for doing the best thing at each point and worrying about what happens when her money runs out.So its not just me. I am now at the point where I don't want to have to be with my mother. My dad aged 88 is her full time carer and I have to battle with him too. If one more person tells me its a shame for my mother I swear I will kill them. She lives the life of riley without a care or worry in the world. Its the rest of the family who its a shame for having to cope with her.