We are in an awful position right now. Mum had a stroke 3 years ago which accelerated and highlighted the dementia. Dad died suddenly almost 4 weeks ago and mum is bereft. 3 sisters are taking it in turn to stay with her and/or have her stay with us. It is so hard to support mum in her grief when we are all trying to process our own as well. In addition every time we feel have formulated a plan to give her some stability and to put some additional care in place Covid rears it’s ugly head and restrictions bite! This is the hardest thing I’ve ever been through.