1. Margarita

    Margarita Registered User

    Feb 17, 2006
    #21 Margarita, Nov 19, 2008
    Last edited: Nov 19, 2008
    What a shock for you for your mother to die like that , Just so out of the blue .

    I can imagine you not being able to take it all in, as nor could I Or the paramedics when it happen to my father , that they had to have a post Mortem on him to find out why he died .

    So distressing for you to think of at the moment, but am wondering will doctor or you want to know what killed your mother, what course her death ?
  2. Linda Mc

    Linda Mc Registered User

    Jul 3, 2005
    Nr Mold
    Thinking of you at this very difficult time. Your Mum is at peace now take care of yourself.

    Love Linda x
  3. jenny48

    jenny48 Registered User

    Sep 19, 2008
    Dear Margaret

    I was so sorry to read your news, I know it is a terrible shock, I hope you take care of yourself. Thinking and praying for you at this sad time.

  4. Laylabud

    Laylabud Registered User

    Sep 7, 2007
    Dear Margaret

    I am so sorry to hear of your sad news, my thoughts and love go to you and your family at this very sad time.
    You must make sure you look after yourself after your recent stroke.
    It must have been a terrible shock to lose your Mum like that but at least she is at peace now and reunited with your Dad.

    I lost my Dad suddenly 11 years ago and it was terrible and it takes you a long time to come to terms with things, but now having to cope seeing my Mum's decline through this cruel illness and the suffering i know now that my Dad had the best exit in life because he did not suffer.

    Sending you lots of hugs

  5. Canadian Joanne

    Canadian Joanne Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 8, 2005
    Toronto, Canada
    Dear Margaret,
    Please accept my sympathies to you and your family. My father died totally unexpectedly last December and the shock of it still strikes me now and again, when I least expect it.

    I am truly grateful that my father died quickly and didn't have a long lingering illness and in the circumstances, you will also come to that realization eventually.

    Still it's so very hard and feels so unfair.
  6. biggeo

    biggeo Registered User

    Nov 17, 2008
    Belfast N.Ireland
    Thinking of you

    Thinking of you at this sad time.My mum died sunday 9th it will take time to get over it.You take care and hold on to your memory of your mum. love xo

  7. Kayla

    Kayla Registered User

    May 14, 2006
    Dear Margaret,
    I'm so sorry to hear of the sudden death of your mother. My Mum also died unexpectedly last year, after just recovering from a tummy bug. It is very hard to adjust to such a loss, but I felt that at least Mum didn't have to suffer for a long time.

    It has taken me ages to really get over losing Mum so suddenly, but there is light at the end of the tunnel and looking back now, I'm remembering Mum more as she used to be in happier times.

    Take care of yourself.

    Please accept my condolences on your sad loss.

  8. lesmisralbles

    lesmisralbles Account Closed

    Nov 23, 2007
    Dear Margaret

    I am so sorry for your loss.
    Ron and I send our deepest sympathy.
    Take care of yourself.

    Barb & Ron XXX
  9. Valeria

    Valeria Registered User

    Sep 25, 2008
    You have my heartfelt condolences. Please take care of you!!

    Peace, Love, and Hugs.

    Anya x
  10. Christinec

    Christinec Registered User

    Aug 8, 2007
    Thinking of you and do try to remember to look after yourself at this difficult time.
  11. Sam Iam

    Sam Iam Registered User

    Sep 29, 2008
    your Mum and Dad will be together, taking care of each other and wanting you to take good care of yourself.
    Your Memorie's of you Mum and Dad will see you through the times to come.
    Thinking of you and yours xx

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  12. Jane.B

    Jane.B Registered User

    Dec 7, 2007
    My thoughts are with you at this sad time.
  13. Tender Face

    Tender Face Account Closed

    Mar 14, 2006
    NW England
    Dear Margaret - what to say? Condolences of course ...... I incline to Jennifer's comments and similar sentiments expressed here (but too raw about my own 'little sparrow' to say anything helpful for you just now in the circumstances....:().

    Please know I am thinking of you, love Karen, x
  14. Lanie

    Lanie Registered User

    Aug 31, 2008
    Dear Margaret

    Sorry for you loss. But your Mum is now at peace with your Dad in a better place, where she'll no longer suffer.
    Look after yourself at this difficult time.

    Thinking of you

  15. Territa

    Territa Registered User

    Jan 10, 2008
    Don't know what to say. I am truely sorry for your loss. I know it's for the best in this instance but the void that is left behind will be the hardest to bare, take care, my thoughts are with you and yours,

  16. barbara h

    barbara h Registered User

    Feb 15, 2008
    county durham
    Dear Margaret

    So sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your mam.

    Take care and try to take comfort in the knowledge that she didn't suffer for a long time and was taken quickly and without too much pain.

    barbara h

    ROSEANN Registered User

    Oct 1, 2006
    Dear Margaret

    So sorry to hear of your loss.

    I lost both of my parents suddenly so know what a shock it can be.

    Please take care of yourself

    God Bless
  18. Margaret W

    Margaret W Registered User

    Apr 28, 2007
    North Derbyshire
    Dear all

    How fantastic you are all, I feel I have a whole group of friends. Yep she went very quickly, which is good. They are doing a post mortem. The staff at the care home are all upset, I have given them all cuddles, they did their very best for mum.

    Will keep you informed. it will be tomorrow at the earliest that we know the cause of death, but I already know it in my heart. Asphyxia. She choked on her food. Nobody could have predicted it, mum was a "gobbler", she didn't do anything slowly, the staff will have had no time to handle her. My guess.

    Will let you all know.


  19. BeckyJan

    BeckyJan Registered User

    Nov 28, 2005
    Margaret: I have only just read your news. What a shock for you - I am so sorry.
  20. alfjess

    alfjess Registered User

    Jul 10, 2006
    south lanarkshire
    Dear Margaret

    So very sorry to hear of your Mum's passing.
    She is at peace now and is spared the end stages of this terrible illness. Maybe this is something for which to be thankful.

    The important thing is your health. You have done all you can for your Mum, now you have to look after yourself.

    Please take care of yourself

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