If it is if any comfort to you my mother died two weeks ago and went through the final stages as your dear mother. She stopped eating and drinking and lost so much weight. In the last three days she went into a deep sleep and then her breathing got quieter and quieter and much slower. She died very peacefully in my arms knowing she was not alone by giving just one long quiet breath. I want to reassure you that it was not frightening, there was no panic she just drifted away. I do hope this is of some comfort to you and that your mother goes as peacefully also. My thoughts are with you as for me it is still so fresh in my mind and my heart. Good wishes to you and all your family and I hope you reach the end of your journey together by being strong and knowing you have done your best. Take care xx