I found out yesterday from my Dad who's 81 and not in the best of health, that my Mum has been diagnose since January, and didn't want to worry myself and my brother. I live in West Yorkshire 4hrs drive away work full time as does my brother, my brother live within 20mins drive. It's just starting to sink in and this morning as to how I am going to be able to support my Mum and my Dad through this terrible journey that we have no choice but to follow being so far away. This my sound selfish but I can't afford to have much time off work.....bills still have to be paid. How do I go about trying to get some help at home for them?