Rats, I was typing a nice long reply and somehow got timed out and lost it all. I will try again, and save as I type, this time.
I like the department store idea and may try that with my mother. She used to love to shop, but hasn't been interested for a couple of years, but worst case we could look at things for a bit and then eat lunch.
I've seen several other mentions of garden centres as places for outings and you must have much nicer garden centres in the UK than we do in the States! Mostly we have big chain hardware stores with a small outdoor section of plants in nice weather and then a few independently owned businesses with greenhouses. Adequate, but not a place to spend time and certainly no lunch on offer. Once a friend took me to a lovely place with acres of land, lush gardens and mature trees and landscaping, and a quaint old glasshouse that had been converted to a cafe and served fantastic food. I imagine all your garden centres like that one! (And perhaps we do have better places and I just don't know where they are.)
I think if your mum likes plants you should go for the "plant therapy;" at worst it'd be some fresh air. The weather here is finally getting nicer so I am hoping my mother will be willing to go outside a bit more. She is reluctant to venture outside if there's any hint of "too cold" or "too hot" or any sort of bad weather. We've had two long, cold winters here and that seems to stay with her.
I'd like to say I'm doing fine, and I'm certainly managing, but there are difficult days and times. Mostly I'm still trying to work my way through a sea of paperwork and to get all the bills/financial/legal/medical things sorted. I know it will get better but it seems never ending at times.
Also my husband and I are still trying to get my mother's place cleaned out/up so that someday (soon?) we can put it on the market; she will need the money for her care. We also have a vehicle to sell. The car and the home are a hundred miles from where we live, so it's mostly weekends when we make that trip.
BUT there is always company, advice, and solace here on TP. Thank goodness!
I like the department store idea and may try that with my mother. She used to love to shop, but hasn't been interested for a couple of years, but worst case we could look at things for a bit and then eat lunch.
I've seen several other mentions of garden centres as places for outings and you must have much nicer garden centres in the UK than we do in the States! Mostly we have big chain hardware stores with a small outdoor section of plants in nice weather and then a few independently owned businesses with greenhouses. Adequate, but not a place to spend time and certainly no lunch on offer. Once a friend took me to a lovely place with acres of land, lush gardens and mature trees and landscaping, and a quaint old glasshouse that had been converted to a cafe and served fantastic food. I imagine all your garden centres like that one! (And perhaps we do have better places and I just don't know where they are.)
I think if your mum likes plants you should go for the "plant therapy;" at worst it'd be some fresh air. The weather here is finally getting nicer so I am hoping my mother will be willing to go outside a bit more. She is reluctant to venture outside if there's any hint of "too cold" or "too hot" or any sort of bad weather. We've had two long, cold winters here and that seems to stay with her.
I'd like to say I'm doing fine, and I'm certainly managing, but there are difficult days and times. Mostly I'm still trying to work my way through a sea of paperwork and to get all the bills/financial/legal/medical things sorted. I know it will get better but it seems never ending at times.
Also my husband and I are still trying to get my mother's place cleaned out/up so that someday (soon?) we can put it on the market; she will need the money for her care. We also have a vehicle to sell. The car and the home are a hundred miles from where we live, so it's mostly weekends when we make that trip.
BUT there is always company, advice, and solace here on TP. Thank goodness!