It would have been Mums birthday today ...83. I am going to the cemetary to lay a bouquet I made her, just making it made the tears fall as I the last time I did flowers for Mum she was alive. The sad fact is both Mum and Dad shared their birthdays, not only that they were born on the same date but also the same year so it is also Dads 83rd birthday too today. I am going to see Dad and take him a joint of ham I have cooked for him (yeah I know sounds silly, but Dad loves how I do the ham and it is one of his favourite meats) and also a tin of choc biscuits. The card I have chosen for him is sentimental with no mention of Happy in it, the front says to my special Dad on your birthday. My children spent the day with him yesterday, the only day my daughter could get off from work, little Molly really cheered him up no end and it sounds like he really did enjoy their visit. So today is going to be difficult for both of us, more so Dad, but I will be there for him no matter what.