Hello
My mum has advanced vascular dementia and she's been looked after by a care home for nearly 3 1/2 years. She's very poorly and it's heart breaking. Today my dad received news that he's now got early onset dementia and he's got to have further tests. We're pretty devastated and I'm pretty sure my nerves can't go through this all again.. in need of some advice.
Mum lives in Care home,dad lives in their house (no mortgage) we have poa in place for mum (health and finance) and dad (only health as he has lots of other medical issues), dad changed his will when mum got unwell. His side of the house/monies will be split between my bro and I and we lose mums.
Where do we stand if dad gets really bad and we need to sell the house and he has to be supported with living or even go the same route as mum? My brother and I need to decide what to talk to dad about to ensure that we protect him and what he has left. Such a nightmare
Feeling sad and angry that both my parents have been attacked by this disease!!
My mum has advanced vascular dementia and she's been looked after by a care home for nearly 3 1/2 years. She's very poorly and it's heart breaking. Today my dad received news that he's now got early onset dementia and he's got to have further tests. We're pretty devastated and I'm pretty sure my nerves can't go through this all again.. in need of some advice.
Mum lives in Care home,dad lives in their house (no mortgage) we have poa in place for mum (health and finance) and dad (only health as he has lots of other medical issues), dad changed his will when mum got unwell. His side of the house/monies will be split between my bro and I and we lose mums.
Where do we stand if dad gets really bad and we need to sell the house and he has to be supported with living or even go the same route as mum? My brother and I need to decide what to talk to dad about to ensure that we protect him and what he has left. Such a nightmare
Feeling sad and angry that both my parents have been attacked by this disease!!