hello all,
it's been a long time since i last wrote in here.
my mum and i are having our best time since 2 years now, as we have moved on an island (yes it's a greek island) and i have a part time job which has helped me tremendously as i am going out of the house and meet people.
but of course her mild dementia is also doing great and still drives me nuts at times.
a problem i had to deal with during the last few years is that my mum accuses people of stealing her. it can be her brother or sister but i am lucky (and unlucky at the same time) that we don't have many people visiting us.
now, that i had to leave for a week i found a very nice lady to come and have a look at my mother. my mother was thrilled with this lady but it only lasted 3 days. she told the lady that she didn't need her any more but didn't tell her that it was because she stole things. i know she could as well accuse her on her face but hopefully she didn't.
i truly believe that we need a lady to have a look at my mum even if it's just for company and a friendly chat or when i have to leave for some days. the thing is... how can i deal with these accusations? how can i make her stay and not throw out the lady?
i feel bad for the lady, it's not good to call you a thief is it????
thanx for listening. i hope you can provide some practical advice.
it's been a long time since i last wrote in here.
my mum and i are having our best time since 2 years now, as we have moved on an island (yes it's a greek island) and i have a part time job which has helped me tremendously as i am going out of the house and meet people.
but of course her mild dementia is also doing great and still drives me nuts at times.
a problem i had to deal with during the last few years is that my mum accuses people of stealing her. it can be her brother or sister but i am lucky (and unlucky at the same time) that we don't have many people visiting us.
now, that i had to leave for a week i found a very nice lady to come and have a look at my mother. my mother was thrilled with this lady but it only lasted 3 days. she told the lady that she didn't need her any more but didn't tell her that it was because she stole things. i know she could as well accuse her on her face but hopefully she didn't.
i truly believe that we need a lady to have a look at my mum even if it's just for company and a friendly chat or when i have to leave for some days. the thing is... how can i deal with these accusations? how can i make her stay and not throw out the lady?
i feel bad for the lady, it's not good to call you a thief is it????
thanx for listening. i hope you can provide some practical advice.