What on earth do you do if your loved one does not want to go into care and does not accept that they need help? Todays visit to Mum was an eye opener finding tea bags, 1 door key and a battery boiled up in the kettle, the water was grey when I emptied it - Mum says Dad must have put it all there (Dad passed away 9yrs ago).
Returning home I called Social Services to update them as they had visited Mum last week, but all they did then was ask Mum if she wanted carers (No), would you like to live in a care home (No), would you like a short visit somewhere for a rest (No), are you happy and safe living at home (Yes) .... it beggars belief as Mum is very obviously no longer capable of making these decisions for herself and does not realise she is a potential danger to herself.
Mum lost her elderly dog over a month ago and has been searching endlessly for her since then (we've tried everything and nothing works) and her Occupational Therapist actually suggested getting Mum another dog!!!! I'm getting so frustrated with health professionals not understanding just how bad Mum's dementia is now.
Not quite sure what I expect from anyone reading this, it just makes me feel a bit better writing it all down.
Returning home I called Social Services to update them as they had visited Mum last week, but all they did then was ask Mum if she wanted carers (No), would you like to live in a care home (No), would you like a short visit somewhere for a rest (No), are you happy and safe living at home (Yes) .... it beggars belief as Mum is very obviously no longer capable of making these decisions for herself and does not realise she is a potential danger to herself.
Mum lost her elderly dog over a month ago and has been searching endlessly for her since then (we've tried everything and nothing works) and her Occupational Therapist actually suggested getting Mum another dog!!!! I'm getting so frustrated with health professionals not understanding just how bad Mum's dementia is now.
Not quite sure what I expect from anyone reading this, it just makes me feel a bit better writing it all down.