How is your Mum doing Marcelle, and how are you?
Thinking of you.
How nice of you to ask, Prudence - you have been so supportive during this crisis. Thank you.
The answer is good news, and bad news.
Good news - Mum does seem as if she's getting better and they're talking of discharging her on Friday (see below).
Bad news - Mum isn't eating or drinking enough because of the wretched Thickened Fluids diet, and I can't help thinking that if this is to be her future way of life, she will be constantly ill through dehydration.
Today's visits: My brother rang me to say he & his wife were there an hour in the morning. The first half hour Mum was contented and chatting, but when the lunch came, the 'thickened fluids' diet, she wouldn't eat and got upset when my brother tried to get her to. At one point my brother tasted the pulverised dessert himself, and said it tasted terrible.
My brother said that a nurse told him they were going to do an ECG to check Mum's heart but if there were no problems they were thinking that she might be discharged before the weekend. This is good news - but my brother and I are very concerned about this 'thickened fluids' diet that she's on.
This afternoon I went in and Mum was tired and wanted to sleep so I sat and read beside her.
This evening John & I went in. Mum has a raised temperature, and is again reluctant to drink the thickened fluids. We talked to a doctor (not one who's treating Mum) who explained that generally patients with 'aspiration pneumonia' do continue on the thickened fluids diet, but I personally think that Mum will just not eat or drink properly and fall ill through dehydration if she has to live like this back at her care home.
I'm going to ring the ward clerk tomorrow to see if it's possible to talk to a doctor in detail about Mum's progress and prognosis. With a lot of coaxing, a nursing aide tonight got Mum to take five teaspoons of red fruity 'thickened fluid', but it really doesn't seem to be enough.
Mum tonight was cheerful but making no sense at all. She kept talking about a number of unrelated topics, making up nonsense words at times, and had obviously no idea about her true whereabouts and situation. I remember she was like that in hospital once last year, and was better the next day, so here's hoping.
Tomorrow is another day.